A great post on empathy from Aspie from Maine, especially how NATs can interpret it.
I especially like this excerpt:
“I have always needed to hear the WORDS when someone is trying to comfort me, but here’s the thing. Most people don’t have words. And that proved disastrous to me, time after time. Because I would be crying, I would be revealing highly emotional things, and I’d look across to where the person was sitting. As far as I could tell, they weren’t responding at all. They weren’t listening. They didn’t care. They didn’t understand. (When in fact nonverbal language was probably saying otherwise.)”
No comments:
Post a Comment